how to handle pressure?

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 when in pressure, 

I feel like, I can't move. not only physically, but also mentally. I wanted to step out and be braver and let my mouth speaks whatever words I want to say. But I was never able to do so. But I really wanted to. 

It's like I wanted to defend myself, but when I defended myself, that's where I got myself too self-centric. Too selfish. Too Ms. Know It All and then there I am, a destroyer of mood, of situation, and everything that's harming.

When in pressure, who should I prioritize? what should I prioritize? Tried to calm myself, I've managed that. But not my brain, my mind. It's like a disconnected wifi. I'm not functioning well. Therefore, I spent around 3 hours of doing nothing in Darbe Cafe. Unable to focus.

Can I just 

Never mind. 

When in pressure, you should never accommodate your wants and needs. You are not that matter. 


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